Even though its a workable tradition with a long history, some couples choose not to greet their guests in a receiving line fearing that this might take too long. Frank Gregoli, a top New York party planner says realistically, one should allow 30 minutes for every 100 all the people in the line. If this instant allotment fits within your plans and youd like to be certain that you personally welcome and thank each of your guests, read on.

Know the Basics

Being familiar with the basics of what a receiving line is all about will immediately help you to feel comfortable with this user friendly formality.

Exactly when and where the receiving line is formed is really based upon your particular situation. In general, people like to form their line either in the vestibule right after the ceremony or at the entrance to the reception area.

With the exception of the groom, this is really a ladys affair. Heres the lineup: first in line is the brides mother, followed by the bride, the groom and, next to him, his mother.

Dads, groomsmen, bridesmaids, and children in the wedding party commonly are not a part of the receiving line. If for some reason you choose to include any of these many people , keep in mind that every person you add will cause the line to proceed slower.

Short and Sweet

Once every one is in position, the rule should be to keep greetings brief yet warm and sincere. This will avoid a bottleneck. If there is instant before your wedding day, review your list of guests with the groom and parents. A little homework never hurts.

Since your mother and you are the first in line, its expected that relatives and friends of his side of the family will introduce themselves to each of you. As your relatives and friends proceed, you should introduce them to the groom and his mother.

Include the Pleasantries
Consider adding a few pleasantries if your receiving line will not be in a house of worship. This will liven up everyones mood, get conversations going, and make waiting in line easier for your guests. For instance, you could:
Include musicHave the band or your dj positioned close enough so that there is music in the background. Plan ahead though. You do not want to have to take measure to contruct these arrangements at the last moment.
Pass the trayAsk your caterer to set hors doeuvres and champagne on a table nearby or have a waiter offer these on a tray.

Receiving Guests Like a Pro

There are always instances where, for one reason or another, a persons name is not ready to roll off your tongue. You may handle these moments as if youve been in receiving lines all your life by quote something like: "I am so glad you came. (Grooms title ) and I hope you will have a wonderful time." Or you could say, "Its great to see you again. Please say hello to my husband, (Grooms title )." Or "Thank you so much for coming. (Grooms name) and I feel lucky to be with so many dazzling friends."

Keeping these simple ideas in mind will help you look and feel like a savvy new bride.